Today is a hard day and at the same time a relief for everybody.
My Mother-in-Law is a very sacrificial wife,even if she knew that her husband was having extramarital affair, she continuously love him despite his wrong doing. After years of understanding and ignoring rumors about my Father-in-Law and his mistress, it came at this point thinking/realizing how this rumors really affects the family.
Afterall, he is not carrying his only surname but ours too! We are all named after him and his clan, and we are sometimes ashamed to admit that we are part of him. It is hard to let go of him, but we made our part to help him change. We loved him without saying words but through actions.
Letting go of him is somehow a relief to the family - it can be stressful at first but will give us a relief for a longer time. We will not think of him more of where and what did he do or where he was with. Surely, we can adjust to that on the later days.
We gave him chances, my mother-on-law forgave him for the Nth time. My father-in-law promised to her not to go to her mistress but the promise was broken. Now, my mother-in-law asked him to promise to his children, can't say a word to hold a commitment.
How can we help him if he doesn't want to change? If we love him and doesn't love back, then what can we do?
We will just keep our doors open if he is ready to let go of his mistress. Praying to God to help him face the truth and lead him to the right path..
My Mother-in-Law is a very sacrificial wife,even if she knew that her husband was having extramarital affair, she continuously love him despite his wrong doing. After years of understanding and ignoring rumors about my Father-in-Law and his mistress, it came at this point thinking/realizing how this rumors really affects the family.
Afterall, he is not carrying his only surname but ours too! We are all named after him and his clan, and we are sometimes ashamed to admit that we are part of him. It is hard to let go of him, but we made our part to help him change. We loved him without saying words but through actions.
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Letting go of him is somehow a relief to the family - it can be stressful at first but will give us a relief for a longer time. We will not think of him more of where and what did he do or where he was with. Surely, we can adjust to that on the later days.
We gave him chances, my mother-on-law forgave him for the Nth time. My father-in-law promised to her not to go to her mistress but the promise was broken. Now, my mother-in-law asked him to promise to his children, can't say a word to hold a commitment.
How can we help him if he doesn't want to change? If we love him and doesn't love back, then what can we do?
We will just keep our doors open if he is ready to let go of his mistress. Praying to God to help him face the truth and lead him to the right path..
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